Thursday, September 18, 2014

Why I can't get help

When I am broken, there seem to be two reasons I can’t get help.

First I don’t ask. How do you expect to get something

if you don’t know what you want?

Make it specific. I need help is a plea not a request.

Second, people don’t know how to help- tell them.

Explain in short what you need.

I just need someone to listen and not give me advice may sound hard

but if that is what you need, ask.

Too often I turn to the wrong person for help. I know I am not alone in this.

Women jump from one bad marriage to another because they don’t want to be alone,

think they can’t manage on their own or various other reasons.

Relationships take work and changing one bad for another you bring your old troubles

and add a few new ones so how can you be better off.